Many people mistake a headache or a sore back for pain in their lats. If your partner is complaining of upper back pain, be sure to massage this area. Stay away from the pit of the underarm, it can be quite ticklish. Tickling and massage usually don't mix. It disrupts the flow and undermines the trust between masseuse and subject.

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