This stroke will be especially enjoyable for your partner. Although it may appear that you should make long strokes, this is not the case. Start just outboard of the spine (on the stretch of muscle there) and make short downward strokes. You can press down quite hard on this muscle and it will feel great. Your partner is sure to let you know when you have it right.
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